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Feminist Sex in Baltimore

The Panelettes: Cara Bruce, Shawna Kenney, and Shira Tarrant

Here’s a  photo of the wonderful Baltimore audience.
The Feminist Sex event was at The 2640 Space, a beautiful converted church.

I’m back in Los Angeles and catching my breath after a series of amazing readings and lectures I gave along the I-95 corridor: Boston, New York, Philadelphia, Baltimore, and D.C.

These photos are from Baltimore. I asked the intelligent, feisty, irreverent authors Cara Bruce and Shawna Kenney to join me in one more of a series of Feminist Sex readings.

What’s Feminist Sex? Nobody knows. For sure. Yet. But I’ve been bringing the anti-sexist, sex-positive conversations together in one venue. Shake, stir . . . and be on the look-out for new book in the works titled (you’ve got it!), Feminist Sex.

Thanks to Red Emma’s Bookstore for inviting us and to the 2640 Space for housing the event, which outgrew the bookstore space.

Boston Author Event: Men and Feminism

Join Shira Tarrant as she discusses her new book, Men and Feminism

Tuesday, May 26 @ 7:00PM

Lir Irish Pub, 903 Boylston St., Boston

(617) 778-0089

There’s no denying that men’s involvement and interest in feminism is key to its continuing relevance and importance. Shira Tarrant, an expert in gender politics, feminism, pop culture, and masculinity, in her new work Men and Feminism, addresses the question of why men should care about feminism in the first place.

Men and Feminism lays the foundation for a larger discussion about feminism as a human issue, not simply a women’s issue. Men are crucial to the movement — as fathers, brothers, husbands, boyfriends, and friends. From “why” to “how” to “what can men do”, Men and Feminism answers all the questions men have about how and why they should get behind feminism.

Sponsored by the Center for New Words and co-sponsored by the Boston Chapter of NOMAS

Cross-posted at Girl With Pen.

Why Hustler?

Shira Tarrant, Jessica Pauline, Michele Matheson, host Stan Kent, Jillian Lauren

Shira Tarrant, Jessica Pauline, Michele Matheson, host Stan Kent, Jillian Lauren

On May 13, Hustler Cafe in Hollywood hosted its monthly In the Flesh Reading Series: L.A.. Topic of the Month? Feminist Sex.

The awesome Jillian Lauren read from her forthcoming memoir, Some Girls and regaled listeners with stories about her experience in a Brunei harem. The amazing Michele Matheson read from her upcoming novel, The Failed Suicide of Cooper Tin. (Michele is a recovering child actor from such TV faves as Mr. Belvedere.) The wickedly funny Jessica Pauline read about working a pole (or a lap) at night and working Planned Parenthood by day, an excerpt from her book-in-progress. The groundbreaking Michelle Tea phoned it in from Florida with provocative portions from her queer, postpunk novel, Valencia.

I read from my new book Men and Feminism (Seal Press) along with my recent Huffington Post piece, Hip to Strip? Or Is it Time for Men to Stop Watching?

Question: Why Hustler?
Answer: Why not?

The event was a great opportunity to talk about women’s freedom to do sex work and to also ask questions about why men pay for it — and I stand behind both topics. Jillian Lauren described the subject of men and feminism as the only taboo left in that particular setting. So all the more reason to speak up. The Hustler event on May 13 left out the subject of what gets women hot. You know … things like sexual agency, pleasure, feminist ethical sluttiness … but that’s a question for another radical day.

Thanks to all who came out for this record-breaking event. Word has it this was the largest turn-out yet for the In the Flesh Reading Series: L.A. That’s really saying something! And much appreciation to Stan Kent for spinning some righteous tunes and for being an all-around gracious and organized host. See you next time.

Reading from Men and Feminism

Reading from Men and Feminism

Crossposted at Girl With Pen

Men and Masculinity on WBAI FM Radio Thursday!


Please join WBAI 99.5 FM radio talk-show host Nathalie Thandiwe on Thursday April 23, 12 noon-1 pm (EST). (That’s 9-10 am if you’re on the Left Coast.)

This week’s edition of Women: Body & Soul looks at the book Men Speak Out: Views on Gender, Sex and Power, edited by Shira Tarrant.

Joining Thursday’s show are author Shira Tarrant, filmmaker Byron Hurt, author Jeremy Adam Smith, and author Jacob Anderson-Minshall. Guests will talk about men, masculinity, sex, relationships, violence prevention, and positive change.

If you are outside the New York City area, listen online at www.wbai.org

Observe and Report — Are We Done Yet?

Apparently not. Seth Rogen’s latest film includes yet another rape scene under the guise of “harmless fun” or “just” entertainment. It’s neither.

For clear talk about the Man Box along with reports from the field about the many, many men working to improve pop culture and end male violence against women, check out the current article in Bitch magazine: Guy Trouble: Are Young Men Really in Crisis or Are These Boys Done Just Being Boys?

There’s more thoughtful commentary on the issue at Lauren Beckham Falcone’s Boston Herald article, the Huffington Post, and Courtney E. Martin’s feminist fuck-you to Seth Rogen at Feministing.com. Even actress Anna Faris, who plays the subject of Rogen’s attention, was surprised by the tone of the movie’s final cut.

Seth Rogen Wondering Why He Didn't Use His Talent More Constructively

Seth Rogen Wondering Why.

Guy Trouble

My latest article Guy Trouble just hit the stands. It’s a fun read. Promise.

Guy Trouble is featured in my favorite magazine that starts with a B and rhymes with itch. You can find it at newsstands and bookstores everywhere.

xoxoxo, Shira

http://bitchmagazine.org/

Here’s a short teaser. But for the full story you’ll need to get the full mag.

These days, most men’s movie roles feature hard-talking, heavy-hitting leads. Or self-conscious, socially awkward types bumbling through social relations. Or there are the sweet-hearted slacker dudes glued to the couch—and maybe their bongs—allergic to steady jobs but true to their friends. Sometimes the men are a combination of two of these types, as in the new bromance comedy I Love You, Man. …